I was reminded this weekend that I am lucky to have an extended “family” who I also happen to work for as the communications director for the Minnesota Turkey Growers Association (or MTGA for short). After 17 years with the organization, it only makes sense that I would get to know many of these people well – and in many cases, get to meet grandparents, parents and children within these multi-generational farm families. But I am blessed to be working for a group of people who really value family and friendships and having fun – along with the hard work of raising turkeys.
This weekend, Teacher Man and I dropped our 8-year-old off with Grandma and Grandpa and went to the wedding of the daughter of one of those turkey farm families. (A night away as adults! But I digress…) I’ve known the family for many years and watched the daughter grow up, as they have attended so many of our conferences and events. What a treat it was to witness this special day, which was so much like both the bride and groom. I especially loved the song they chose to walk out of the church to as husband and wife: “Livin’ on a Prayer” by Bon Jovi – as played by a violinist and pianist. How fun is that?
Afterwards, I heard numerous times, “This is our MTGA family” as there were several of us “turkey peeps” who attended and – of course – we do tend to flock (okay, pun intended – sorry, couldn’t help it) together at social events such as these. And it reminded me of all the stories I’ve heard over the years of how MTGA has brought farmers together, not only to learn and help each other but also to form lasting friendships and, really, an extended family of sorts.
Sometimes I wish those who criticize farmers without really knowing farmers or ever being on a farm could really see what I see – that farmers are people too. They work hard and they play hard. They have spouses and children and enjoy all the things that we all do. This weekend, it was a fun party with turkey showcased as the main entree, plenty of wine flowing from the bar and a dance that lasted until the wee hours of the morning. And I was lucky enough to be there with my MTGA family – definitely good times!
